Six Silly Blunders Men Make Before, During And After Making Love To A Woman

Six Silly Blunders Men Make Before, During And After Making Love To A Woman

Making love to a woman doesn’t end the minute intimacy ends.

Relationship experts have proven that showing a woman affection right after you make love to her draws her closer to you.

However, many men make typical mistakes after intimacy that either risk the stability of the relationship or ends it immediately.

Here are 6 Silly Blunders Men Make Before, During And After Making Love To A Woman:

Describe her facial expressions when she climaxes
No woman wants to be judged or made fun of after an intense intimate session. Describing her facial expressions can be annoying and will put her off. Women simply want to enjoy the moment.

“Women want to lose themselves during sex. The last thing they want is someone giving them a blow-by-blow description of their most intimate moments,” says Constance DelGiudice, a sex therapist.

Failing to return the favour
In most cases, men will ejaculate first and after they do, they forget about their partners.

This kind of men acts as though the woman climaxing is totally irrelevant. If you are a man and you have this problem, make sure to finish the job first.

Asking for feedback
Most men want to know how they performed after an intimate session. Was it good, bad, moderate, and excellent? Such compliments can either boost or lower his ego and might determine whether he will get intimate with the woman again or not. Most men like to be rated especially if it is the first time.

Expecting round two
Physical intimacy in the bedroom is tiring because it is an exercise and that is why most men will sleep after intercourse.

However, some men don’t get tired. Five minutes after climaxing and they want to jump on you all over again. Saying no will only hurt their ego and you ’ll make them feel as though they poorly performed in the first round, which is not the case.

Failing to clean up
Physical intimacy can be messy especially if ‘oral’ is involved. Some men will, however, forget to clean up and fall asleep. If you won’t take a shower, at least use some tissues to wipe your mess.

Telling her some information that she should have known before you got intimate
You are done having all the fun and then he drops the bombshell, “by the way, I have an STI, sorry I forgot to mention,” Withholding some information could really hurt your partner’s feelings.

“Depending on the information you’re divulging, your partner may also feel betrayed and angry. Be respectful and open up [beforehand] so your partner can make an informed decision about whether or not they want to have sex with you, just like you got to make the same informed decision,” says Kristen Lilla, a Certified Sex Therapist and Certified Sexuality Educator.

Source: Standard Media

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