7 Important Things You Should Know Before Proposing to that Lady
Proposing to a lady and eventually planning for the big day could be a little challenging especially if you have never been involved in helping others plan their own. There are things you need to know and also put into your plan even as the day draws near.
Here are some of the important things to know before you propose and plan for your wedding.
1. Endeavour not to buy your rings especially if you have never shop for pieces of jewellery before:
attempting to get a ring when you have never shopped for any before could be disastrous. As a man, you might not know the difference between cocktail or art ring or even the one suitable for your engagement. She might actually have a particular ring she wanted and trust me going by that will score you a point because it will be classy and your friends will give you compliment for your great taste.
2. When proposing, be simple:
You don’t need to outdo yourself just to impress a lady when you are proposing. Be simple, private, clever and pick your words carefully. All the lady wants is the real you, not a fake man; by now you should know what she wants, just do it. Make it KISS (Keep It Simple & Short).
3. The truth is your singlehood was over before that day:
She knew she wanted to spend the rest of her life with you before now, so don’t mess things up, just relax and be cheerful.
4. Be careful about vendors:
This must be well thought out with your to-be-wife. Start searching for your wedding vendors early so that you can get those that will give you the best at no extra cost and will not disappoint you.
5. Involve your family and friends:
Preparing for the big day is not a small thing and you cannot do all these by yourself. You need help, not only monetary but even moral support. You will need your family and friends to be there at every point.
6. Not all advice is useful:
Trust me everybody will become your counsellor but not all counsel is needful and useful. just pick the useful ones and move on but never make a mistake of going into marriage without having a solid counsel from the right quarters.
7. Let your investment be in moments and not just things:
It is certain that everything will be over in a twinkle of an eye if this is true you will definitely need every moment of the event later. it is about having a good memory of the whole event as much as possible. let your memories be anchored on moments shared with your families, friends and your loved ones. With time, people will forget how many cows you killed. They will also forget the colour and the type of suit you wore on your wedding day. But the moments will count eventually.