A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because, they refused to give them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.
Here, in this write-up, I want to be blunt with you. Virginity may not be the real reason the guys went away. Yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it, they walk away. The problem may not be the virginity or the sex.
Listen to me
The story of the Ten Virgins in the Bible portrayed that both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other five were not allowed to see the bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity. NO! But because they were foolish and they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL. Yes, I said Extra OIL. And the EXTRA OIL I mean here is CHARACTER! Most girls do not have the extra oil to sustain any relationship, while many brag about their virginity, that’s all they have to offer. Aside from your virginity, sister, what can you offer a man??
– Can you support him spiritually? Some of you don’t even know where Genesis is in the Bible!!
– Can you support him physically? Some of you can’t even cook without turning the food into a burnt offering!
– How about mentally? Mtchewww, some of you don’t even know the difference between Income and expenditure
All you do is demand money for bag, shoes, clothes, and outing, making him spend unnecessarily.
Have you ever sat him down, and you help him plan for his future? Well somebody that doesn’t have a future can’t be planning another’s, you don see where blind man dey lead him fellow blind man for express? The kind trailer wey go jam dem eheen, Dangote standard! Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in? They tell you something the next thing, your mouth is already running like a newly commissioned borehole.
How many times has he come to seek advice from you in turbulent times? Well, I’m not surprised, how can a novice in the village be giving directions to the market square, when she herself is confused about the actual location? Rather than jumping from one-night club to another madam tourist why don’t you sit and build your future partner?
And for the virgins, they forget that virginity ends after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL continues… Yes… Nobody is perfect… Even me writing this now. We all have our bad sides BUT…Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life… Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man. Build your man to your taste…
And stop looking for a readymade husband. Instead of readymade get an Akube material and tailor it to your taste! Readymade these days don’t last.
Forcing yourself on that rich dude that you didn’t work with to achieve what he has, the day the monkey will go to the market and never return then you will be hearing something like ‘’Did You Work With me to achieve all I’ve got? ‘’Ever since you’ve entered this house… What have you added to what you met? As I end this write-up, please note: There’s just nothing as best as building up your man yourself. And you will forever earn his respect. I hope this piece of advice is useful to all singles and married?