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Never do these 10 things! If you want to forget someone

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Relationships that do not have a happy ending are very common, although no one likes to go through the breakup. Be it because of one or both, it is painful and can bring many questions about what to do next.

Even if the two agree that it is best to opt out of the relationship, they may suffer from the period immediately after separation. Therefore some attitudes should be avoided to the maximum so that everything can happen and the person is able to qualify better for a new love.

1. Find out about ex-boyfriend by social networks

People do this to make sure they feel as sad as they are, but what they will discover are mostly social lies. And even if they are truthful or if one really enjoys exposing oneself to the utmost in the nets, seeking to know how it is will not bring healing to the broken love, it will only strengthen the negative feelings of loss and the painful memories. It is best to let each of you follow your life and seek to know as little as possible about his life.

2. Save the photos and review constantly

Another form of sentimental torture is this because every opportunity to see the smile of both of the past will bring suffering. Erasing the photos together or keeping them in a virtual album of little access and getting rid of the printed photos is still a good habit to end a relationship once and for all.

Remembering and thinking that the relationship was not good and especially its ending is nothing positive to overcome and forget. If the thought insists on staying, shifting the focus to something more interesting helps, such as a reading or a conversation with a friend.

4. Being pessimistic

To think that you will never find happiness again is also harmful. Finding fun and keeping positive thoughts about the future will be much better.

5. Forcing encounters

Longing beats and the way is to remember a pending matter to call him. Willpower and wisdom will tell you that it will not be very profitable to talk to him again, even though you may bring back old emotions. Go ahead with education and avoid long conversations when the initiative from the other side is much more mature.

6. Ban the detective

Being investigating for friends and relatives how his life is, whether he is happy or if he already has someone else is very cruel to himself. It is best to move on and hope that he will also do so that both will achieve happiness.

7. Musical memories

Abandon the idea of having moments of sadness listening to the couple’s songs. Knowing new and being happy is much more interesting.

8. Avoid social life

Many do this by not feeling able to love again or because they need time to compose themselves. The truth is that each one has his time, which may be longer or shorter for each one, but to stop living should not be part of the plans. If the person still does not feel ready for the fun, getting something they like leaving home is important for overcoming.

9. Desire evil

To hope that the other person will never find someone else in life will only harm themselves. If it is difficult to desire good for him, then it is best not to desire anything.

10. Give up on love

People deserve life chances in every industry and it’s no different with anyone. If one has erred and the other has given up on the relationship, not wanting to start over again with fear of being disappointed again can be exchanged for an expectation of improvement and growth, recognizing where he has gone wrong and becoming a better person.

It is always possible to be happy when there is a real quest for this, regardless of whether you are in a relationship or having finished with one.

The writer is Alamu Tosin. I have three strong passions in life — football, blogging and movies — in that order. I love spending time with friends talking about the important things in life and hate nothing more than ‘authority’ and hypocrisy. My personal believe in life is that once an individual sets his/her mind to achieve something, it is totally possible. And oh!, I am a strong Lannister, because I always pay my debt. For writing or fixing gigs, contact tosinalamu@gmail.com.

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