A black lady dating a white man is giving thought to the possibility of marrying her after a recent quarrel happened.
She said they have been dating for three years and within that period their relationship has been healthy until when he recently used a racist word on her.
The lady revealed that she accidentally dented his truck when she was trying to drive out of the parking lot and he got overtly furious about it that he hurled the N word at her.
She felt totally heartbroken and emotional about what happened and though he apologised she could not stop crying.
According to the lady, her man explained that he must have been hurt from the stress of work and school altogether which is most likely why he acted that way.
She, however noted that she does not know if it is something she can get over easily even though he keeps apologising and showing her love and affection. She noted that before the incident she would have not hesitated to say yes if he proposed but she no longer feels the same way.
She wrote; “Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 yrs.. our relationship has been very healthy up until this comment and I have always thought that I wouldn’t even hesitate to say yes if he asked me to marry him.
We have arguments, but they’re never anything too serious. Last night he really blew up at me because I accidentally put a dent in his truck when pulling out of a parking lot and he ended up calling me the hard R (I’m a black female and he’s white) he has never said anything racist before and has apologized already, but I’m very hurt and I honestly can’t stop crying.
He told me that school/work is stressing him out and that he took it out on me in that moment because the dent in the truck was just the cherry on top to everything shitty that’s been happening with him. I know that he is truthfully sorry.. he keeps on repeating it and is giving me an excessive amount of affection, but I don’t know if this is something I can just get over easily.. I love him so much, this really fxxking sxxks.”