Have you ever been in a situation where you see a very attractive lady that you like, and you couldn’t approach her to get her number or even talk to her at all? You are not the only one, a lot of men have been in that shoe before, it’s not because you’re not attractive enough, or because you don’t have enough money, it has nothing to do with those things.
Most times, when you are unable to approach a lady, it’s not because she’s really beyond your reach, its just because you don’t think you’re worthy of her, you worry more about not being embarrassed, than actually going over to her and saying hello.
That lady that you find attractive, that you are unable to approach, is also human, she’s like you, she’s not going to swallow you for approaching her, and that’s what you need to understand.
In this article, I will be showing you three things you can do if you’re finding it difficult to approach a lady.
1. Work on your communication skills
If you’re scared to approach a lady, it might be because you don’t know what you’re going to say to her, you don’t know how to communicate to her, how to engage her in a conversation. And if you have this problem with your communication skill, it will take you a very long time before you’ll be able to approach a lady, this explains why you need to work on your communication skill. Learn how to start a conversation with a girl, how to manage a conversation and how to make a conversation interesting.
In working on your communication skill, you can also work on your composure, so that your mouth will not be shaking when you eventually approach the lady.
2. Work on your dressing
There’s a common saying that, “the way you’re dressed is the same way you’ll be addressed”. This is completely true, the way you dress, is what would determine how the lady you want to approach, will see you. And your dressing will also determine the level of confidence you’ll have, when trying to approach the lady.
3. Stop thinking about the consequences and just do it
This is another thing you need to do; you need to stop thinking about the consequences, you don’t have to bother yourself about the outcomes, just go over to her and say hello. Don’t keep asking yourself, what if? This question will not do anything for you. The next time you see a lady you like, summon enough courage and approach her.