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8 Things A Guy Will Only Do For The Lady He Really Loves

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Guys also love and express their love in different ways. When a guy is in love with a girl, he tries to show it; he isn’t nonchalant, but he looks for means and ways to actually show that lady that he loves her.

These are eight of the ways most guys show their love.

1. He brings you around his friends.

Or family . Or whoever is closest to him. When a guy starts to make you part of the important things in his life, it is a good sign that he is serious about you. He wants others to experience the happiness that you bring to his life (and maybe show you off a little bit — in a good way because he is proud to be with you).

2. He stays close to you physically.

It could be keeping his arm around you, hugging you randomly, or cuddling up on the couch — a guy who truly cares and enjoys your company will always want to be in close proximity to you. Physical contact, even when ‘innocent,’ sends non-verbal messages that are worth paying attention to.

3. He really listens to you.

One of the major things that guy often get accused of is being terrible listeners. Whether he doesn’t remember that it was your friend’s birthday this weekend, or which scented candle was your favorite one at the store — the small details matter most. A guy who really cares for you will listen intently and do his best to absorb all of the details that he can. It is his way of showing you that he values you and what you have to say.

4. He stays in touch with you just because.

Two people who genuinely enjoy each other’s company don’t need a reason to talk to each other. If he texts or calls you just to say hello, to see how your day is going, or to say good morning and goodnight, it is a clear sign that he thinks about you often and wants you to know it.

5. He doesn’t care what you do, as long as you’re together.

Oh, you have to go grocery shopping today or go out and get things for your party this weekend? Count him in. For the man who wants to spend as much time with you as he can, it’s not just going to be on date night or when you are intimate together. A meaningful
relationship is just as much about sharing in everyday things together, as it is about the exciting things.

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6. He will go pick up your dry-cleaning .

Or whatever it is that you don’t have time to do yourself. He will put in the effort to help you out in order to make your life easier, just because. A guy who is not serious about you will not be around often enough, nor willing enough, to do these things.

7. He asks for your advice.

If a guy asks you for your advice on a decision he is trying to make or a situation that he is in, it means he values your opinion enough to take you seriously and actually use it as a guiding light in his own life. If a guy values your thoughts, it means he values you.

8. He will always make you feel safe.

Guys are naturally protective. Millions of years of biological evolution has brought us to the point where we naturally want to protect those we love, whether they need it or not. It could mean protecting you from getting hurt emotionally or physically, but protecting nonetheless.

A guy who loves and cares for you will make you feel safe. He will never make you question whether or not he will be there for you in a time of need. He will stand by your side when he must, in front of you when he must, and behind you when he must. He will be your teammate through life.

A guy who loves you will make you feel it in his own ways. When he really cares, you will know it — if he doesn’t, you will be wondering all the time if he does.

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Alamu Tosin

The writer is Alamu Tosin. I have three strong passions in life — football, blogging and movies — in that order. I love spending time with friends talking about the important things in life and hate nothing more than ‘authority’ and hypocrisy. My personal believe in life is that once an individual sets his/her mind to achieve something, it is totally possible. And oh!, I am a strong Lannister, because I always pay my debt. For writing or fixing gigs, contact tosinalamu@gmail.com.

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