6 Things to Know Before You Divorce your Spouse

6 Things to Know Before You Divorce your Spouse

The Divorce rate in our society today is alarming. And it is sad to see many marriages sink into the many waters of divorce. Many couples today couldn’t fight for their marriage.

Some even say that they don’t have the energy to fight for the crashing marriage. Before you think of divorce, just before you go through the rigorous court proceedings, you can use that time for rigorous court proceeding to fight against the crack that is making your marriage to tumble.

Think of these six things before you proceed to the law court to seek a divorce.

It creates emotional void

There is an emotional void after a divorce. There is an inner emptiness that grows within immediately someone enters into the ship of divorce. The emotional void could come in the form of a deep sense of loss, depression. It can even lead to psychological imbalance. Work on that your marriage and I can assure you that it will begin to walk.

It destroys happiness

Happiness is a force that drives a marriage. But if the force is destroyed, the centrality of the marriage life is totally destroyed. Happiness becomes a mirage in a broken marriage. Fight and sustain the happiness in your marriage before you seek divorce in a law court.

It terminates commitment

Any relationship without commitment is bound to break in the long run. Just before you go to court, commit your all in ensuring a blissful marriage filled with the funfair of life. When you give your hundred percent to that marriage, definitely, you won’t have to visit the customary court. Think about commitment again!

It affects your children
If you truly care about your children, you will reconsider your decision to divorce your spouse. Children, after a divorce, usually bear the consequences of their parents’ action. It affects them psychologically. It creates a constant void of parenting in their heart. Sure, they may even see marriage as an evil one must avoid. If you love your children, give them a home, not divorce.

Divorce is Costlier than Marriage

The process of divorce is expensive. Why can’t you use that time of seeking divorce to fight for your happiness in your marital home? Marriage is bliss ; divorce is costly. Go for the bliss that is found in marriage.

It is Against the Will of God
Yes, God frowns at divorce. The purpose of God is for a spouse to remain married because that is where is the fullness of joy. If you really want to experience long life void of complication

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Alamu Tosin

The writer is Alamu Tosin. I have three strong passions in life — football, blogging and movies — in that order. I love spending time with friends talking about the important things in life and hate nothing more than ‘authority’ and hypocrisy. My personal believe in life is that once an individual sets his/her mind to achieve something, it is totally possible. And oh!, I am a strong Lannister, because I always pay my debt. For writing or fixing gigs, contact [email protected].
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