5 Benefits Of Staying Single

5 Benefits Of Staying Single

To be single is a choice. But it is a very difficult choice. Anyway, your choice of being single could bring a lot of emotional challenges like loneliness. Yet, there are times that it is better to be single than be in a relationship but you are unhappy with it.

Here are 5 times it is better to be single.

I urge you to consider them before you jump into another dead-end relationship.

When it doesn’t interest you

Before you jump into a fresh relationship, ask yourself if you really want that relationship. Don’t force yourselves into a new relationship. When you feel more comfortable being single, you should listen to that instinct at least for the time being.

When you just got out of a relationship

Perhaps you just got out a relationship and you are desperate to fill in the void that your last relationship left in your heart, well, take a little break from relationship life. Don’t give in to this feeling of trying to fill in the gaps. Take some time off the thought of relationship and ponder on what went wrong in the last relationship and why it had to end.

When You’re depressed

Well, depression is a state that could even affect any relationship you tend to start. Believe me, being in a relationship will not solve the problem of your depression. It is very important to pay attention to your own value before you jump into that relationship.

When You don’t know what you want

If you are still contemplating on what you want, it is advisable that you settle that first before you plunge into another journey of emotional zigzag. Being single is a time to learn and unlearn the myth and the reality that encompass relationship. So, for the meantime, Learn!

When You don’t love yourself

Before you can love other people, you have to first love yourself. Therefore, never settle for less than you deserve. Settle for the best thing that you love. And if you haven’t found it, wait!

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Alamu Tosin

The writer is Alamu Tosin. I have three strong passions in life — football, blogging and movies — in that order. I love spending time with friends talking about the important things in life and hate nothing more than ‘authority’ and hypocrisy. My personal believe in life is that once an individual sets his/her mind to achieve something, it is totally possible. And oh!, I am a strong Lannister, because I always pay my debt. For writing or fixing gigs, contact [email protected].
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