Several parents today have gone to extent of hating their children and then they infuse pains on them. On the other hand, some correct their children by hitting them and then that can definitely affect them.
What then are the reasons for you not to hit your child?
1. They are your greatest treasure
Yes, children are the greatest treasures of parents, so it is a great responsibility for mother and father to protect this treasure so sacred and precious that they will one day be worthy to have them for eternity.
It is the duty of every mother to care for her children , to love them, to teach them in childhood because it is precisely in childhood that the most enduring lessons are learned and inserted into the lives of the children, and they will contribute greatly to their character.
2. Children are not to blame for your frustrations
How unfortunate it is when a mother beats up her children because her dreams have been frustrated or because her father did not respond to her family.
As painful and harsh as your situation may be, you are the only one responsible for the changes and also for your mistakes and not your children . Get help getting out of it. Be a real mother, roll up your sleeves and go to the fight, but first ask your children for forgiveness, for they do not have to deserve it, you must deserve them.
3. Children need respect and not fear.
You do not raise children to be afraid, but respect, regardless of whether you raise them with your spouse or alone, they need to learn to make good choices, because that is what you expect of them and not because you will have a “ribbon” for them. to beat them.
It is important for children to know that parents not only trust them but also believe in their ability to make good choices. And it’s up to parents only to let their children see it.
Always love and cherish your children for they are a gift from God. They are like an arrow in the hand of a mighty man. Use them to your advantage.